I asked for support on how others dealt with the loss of a treasured friend. I want to appologize to the community for not reading the answers until now. This week was hard enough for me. I could not bring myself to read about grief while coming to terms with the reality of Merlin’s passing.
I did not get to answer, or vote for those kind enough to respond. I am sorry.
It has been a week and two days. I am trying to focus on the quality of our lives together. When I speak of Merlin’s passing I share a happy moment we spent together. I have brought a number peeople to tears remembering their own losses. My friend’s have been amazing with their condolences and support. Merlin’s passing was inevitable, a part of the circle of life, but I miss him.
My five pound Merlin touched the heart of everyone he met. He was raised to believe humans existed to give him pleasure. Any one that entered my home was touched by his affection and ability to purr!
I know I loved him. Merlin took his last bit of strength to come down to my bedroom and cuddle up and go to sleep; forever. It touched my heart because I know he loved me too! He always slept in my room with me and he mustered his energy to be with me in the end. I know a lot of cats go off to hide when they are not well. Merlin came to me. I am grateful.
I am also grateful for a dear friend that came over to deal with the realistic details. I never had to deal with anything other than seeing Merlin sleeping. I am very grateful for his help and will never forget the gift his friendship gave me. I am left only with the beautiful memories of Merlin. I wish a friend like him to all of you in times of need.
I have had Merlin cremated and got beautiful heart shaped brass urns. I bought him roses and surrounded them with candle pillars and his monogrammed baby pillow.
I would love to hear about special ways others have remembered their loved ones. I think sharing ideas helps to heal.
I also want to say thank you again to all of you that have offered your support. I have family and friends that have been very supportive, but hearing from you – the Yahoo Community – has meant a lot to me too. Itis amazing that people can reach out to others in this way.
How did you remember your lost loved pet?
