I was thinking a lap dance or a secret treasure hunt where he finds 2 tickets to a comedy show and dinner at his fave rest. with me, followedf by sex in a school girl outfit. But I dont have lots of cash and yet I want to be spontaneous and original. His b-day is coming up in Oct. too and I want to wow him with something thoughtful and fun. He has all the gadgets and music and dvds he likes, so i feel lost. I want toknock his socks off once in while when we go out instead of the same old sex, renting movies, and smoking. . So I need some answers from guys who will tell me the truth or cool chics who pulled off the impossible to give thier guys a smile. And I’m on a tight budget too. He knows I am struggling financially but I still want to give him some good times when we go out PLUS a good b-day in Nov.. Any ideas??? (as well, we’ve only been together 3 months)